Even SUPERHEROS deserve time to themselves

 
I have come to understand that I too need to relax . I cannot always be everything to everyone if I am nothing to myself . I am re-programing myself to take better care of myself. I am taking a deep breathe more often . I have learned to say “NO” to people .
I have [...]

10 years with the Love of my Life

Today I celebrate 10 years of marriage to my best friend. We have come so far in these past ten years . We understand what it means to stick it out. It wasn’t always a walk in the park .We were both willing to do all it takes to have a successful marriage. That is [...]

I see the CHANGE

I have to share this story because for me it shows my growth . 

I had set up an appointment at Direct Buy . The whole sale home furnishing store. They make it clear that when you come for a tour you are not allowed children under 12 . Okay , I have 2 kids under [...]

Top Ten ways to Improve you life (revised)

 
I had written a post back in June about ways to improve your life. I thought it would be a good idea to re-post it . I just want to say the first thing you will have to do to improve your life is want it. Improvement may mean change. Are you up for change? [...]

Digging real deep … We all don’t have to but it might help let go

    I had a talk the other day with John Milton Fogg . He had brought to my attention I needed to go deeper and really pay mind to what I am saying. At least that is one of the things I had gotten out of the conversation . Among plenty of other things. You [...]

La La La not listening

How many of you go through life really to busy talking and not listening ? 
To many people like to think they know it all. When someone is telling a story they are to busy interrupting then actually hearing anything. I have a friend like that . She is always interrupting me instead of letting me [...]

Do you talk a good game , But have no desire to play in that game

A lot of people like to talk a good game,
Very little attempt playing in it. 
Are you the type that gives great advise but never takes your own. I used to be like that. I would present how great life is and how easy it is to achieve . Up until this past year I  was [...]

Don’t judge a book by it’s cover

It is sad to see all the stereotypes in the world. Being in the business that I am in I get to meet of different people. I realize how naive people are. They judge people on what society suggests that people are.
Don’t judge a book by it’s cover!
 
 
 
 
I met a woman in LA last week [...]

Learning to Listen

In the past few years I have learned that listening is very important to growing. I wasn’t always the best listener. I was always good at giving advise never taking it. I realize that if I can’t follow how will I ever learn to lead. I feel I was born a leader , But even [...]

Pleasing Others

How happy am I going to be if I live my life only pleasing others? Why is it that when it comes to family they think they are the exception to the rule? I just don’t get it. When are people going to WAKE UP and smell the Coffee! 
I was not born into this world [...]