The Key to a Strong Relationship is Speaking the Same Language

 

    

Do you speak Canary?

Do you speak Canary?

Do you speak the same language as the people that surround you? I don’t mean nationality or religion. I mean are you speaking in a language that the person that you are communicating with will understand

 

The Key is Speaking the Same Language

 

 

 

 

Andy Andrews put so nicely what I had already known . But he actually broke it down into simple terms. What kind of language do you speak?  Do you speak Canary? Puppy? Goldfish? Kitty cat?

 

  • Canary – Needs to chirp away and have a good listener.
  • Puppy – Needs to be told they are doing a good job and given attention
  • Goldfish – Just needs to be fed and is always doing
  • Kitty Cat – Helps themselves for affection, But would love to get it back.
I major in Goldfish and minor in Canary. I am the type that I just do do do and I love to share my information that I have tons of knowledge in.  With this knowledge my husband knows what my needs are. He didn’t always know this about me . It took us time to figure out what language we spoke. He spoke puppy. I didn’t know that at first. But when we figured that out for each other a few years back we created a incredible realationship. 
It is really important for a successful relationship that you understand what language the person that you are talking to . 
Do you speak Goldfish?

Do you speak Goldfish?

What language do you speak?

Can you speak different languages?

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