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What Life Brings …

Life can bring you everything you desire if you can just allow your thoughts to get you there

Dana Malave

It is more than just thoughts you need to add feeling to your thoughts. Feelings are extremely important to attracting what you desire. When you put feelings and emotion in what you are seeing for yourself , you are creating a vibration of good energy . We know that everything is energy . SO you want to keep a good vibration of energy associated to your thoughts. 

So imagine how you would feel . Allow yourself to get emotional about it . 

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Even SUPERHEROS deserve time to themselves

 

Even superheros deserve to relax

Even superheros deserve to relax

I have come to understand that I too need to relax . I cannot always be everything to everyone if I am nothing to myself . I am re-programing myself to take better care of myself. I am taking a deep breathe more often . I have learned to say “NO” to people .

I have made it a point to be just as commited to myself as I am to helping others.  

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Golden Nuggets

I have been seeking advice from very wealthy people. The ideas and the ah ha moments I refer to them as Golden Nuggets

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It is one thing to seek out advice . It is another to apply it . I usually take notes when I have these conversations . That way I don’t mix up what I had learned. I highlight the GOLDEN NUGGETS . That way they stand out more . I have been surrounding myself with like minded individuals that excel in the field of personal development . They are also 6 and 7 figure income earners. 

I feel very strong about the saying, ” You are who you hang with ” . I think the people you spend your time with are a reflection of who you are at a particular time . 

Who do you get your GOLDEN NUGGETS from ?

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Everyday is Saturday

It is almost a year ago that I went to Hawaii . That was the first conference that I went to as a liberty league associate . 

  Sam Crowley was the guest speaker .

Sam and his girls

Sam Crowley  thought he was following the “American Dream.”

An ex-stuttering college dropout, Sam worked his way up to a corner office at a Fortune 100 company.

With a six-figure salary and all the perks, he was supposed to be content… but he was secretly MISERABLE.

Sam arrived home late every night, giving his best at work while his family got leftovers.

Like so many people in the corporate world, his American Dream had turned into a nightmare!

One night, Sam’s daughter Madeline uttered 4 innocent words that stopped him in his tracks and changed the course of his family’s life forever…

Arriving home late (again), Sam went upstairs to find his 3 year-old daughter already in bed.

She asked him, “Daddy, is tomorrow Saturday?”

Saturday was the only day Sam had time to spend with his family- the only day he could be a real father.

** Every Day Is Saturday Is Born **

That night, Sam decided that someday soon, every day would be Saturday.

He realized that his ultimate goal was to be a great father for his children.

Sam managed to quit his job and start his own business that allows hi the “Ultimate Saturday Lifestyle” as an international motivational speaker and business coach.

In short order, Sam was able to…

– Go from speaking for free to getting paid $25,000 per keynote address

– Quit his job and spend more time with his 3 young daughters

– Start a motivational podcast that is now downloaded by 30,000 loyal subscribers in over 100 countries around the world

– And much, much more all based on nothing but the power of his dream!

And it’s not just Sam who is making a massive transition- just look at what his students have accomplished:

– Dustin Salisbury, a 24 year-old senior airman in the US Air Force, used Sam’s message to conquer fear and adversity while deployed in Iraq

– Brian McElroy produced his first documentary film and helped raise over $100,000 for charity with Sam’s guidance

– Dino Herbert was motivated by Sam to take action and truly live the life he wanted as a speaker, trainer, and author

** Six Days To Saturday **

While Sam was going through his own transition, and then started helping others reach their Saturday, he documented each step of the process.

He knew it would become an invaluable blueprint for anyone with a dream to make their own Saturday a reality.

The result is “Six Days To Saturday,” the first-ever audio series dedicated to helping you go from Monday to Saturday!

In six digitally mastered audio CDs (and an accompanying workbook), Sam takes you through each step of the process:

Monday – Feel The Pain And Write Your Future

Tuesday – Preparing For Success

Wednesday – The Time For Action!

Thursday – Failure Is A Verb, Not A Noun

Friday – Commitment & Persistence 

Saturday – You Are A Champion!

No matter what your Saturday may be, Sam’s message is POWERFUL.

If you want to spend more time with family, make a bigger contribution to others, and bring your life to a whole new level, then Sam’s message is for you.

You can learn more about “Six Days To Saturday” and request a free copy of Sam’s powerful report “Seize Your Saturday Power!”https://friday.infusionsoft.com/go/special/Dana

Go there now and make EVERY day Saturday!

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Don’t let life make you , You make Life !

Many people walk around letting there lives make them . They have no clue that they can make their own lives . 

I ran into a 9 year old boy that was in my daughters 2nd grade class and his sister who was in my son’s Pre;k class.  They were visiting their  father . He moved to another part of  Queens . I had asked them how school was and they both jumped out and said it was horrible. My heart dropped . I asked them how they were doing and he put his head down .  He started to express how he wished he was living back over here . 

All I could think to tell him was these wise words … 

Don’t let LIFE make you , You make LIFE 

I asked him if he understood what I meant. I got a blank stare . I told him to please remember these wise words and never forget them . One day you will understand them and your life will change. I promised him  that if I ever see him again I would repeat those words to him . 

I wanted him to understand that the situations that he is placed in doesn’t have to make him who he is . He can take that and learn about who he really wants to be . I went home and told my children about what had happened . I wanted them to understand and have gratitude for they life they live. I asked my oldest , my daughter if she knew what I meant . It truly brought me joy to know she understood what it means to Make Your LIFE ! 

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Just let me GO !

It is just amazing to me how I can walk away from my past and all these years later I find myself the topic of the conversation .

6 years ago I walked away from the group of friends that I had spent my childhood creating memories with . It wasn’t easy ,Being that I know have the understanding I was addicted to them . I would see some of them here and there . For the most part I kept my distance. Till this past year. I have been spending more time in my old neighborhood . My children attend my old  elementary  school .

As a result I have run into many people from the past . Some I am glad to see and some I would rather not . The ones I would rather not have such bad energy . They have recently made me the topic of interest . I know this because I have been told. It is very sad to think after all this time they would have nothing better to do than gossip about me .

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In the past week I feel like I have been fighting off this energy . Strange things have happened that I can’t really explain .I am just grateful I am in the most amazing place in my life . I have support from the most amazing people ( you know who you are )

Like everything else I will fade out like a bad trend to them and They can focus their energy on someone else . I know it is time for them to JUST LET ME GO !

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You cannot be a Victim anymore !

You need to Refuse to participate in thoughts and conversations of lack . If you are focusing all of your energy on what you don’t have and what isn’t going right for you you sound like a victim of your life . It almost goes hand and hand with being addicted to unhappiness in your life. 

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Life is more than what you lack . It is more about what you have and what are . The glass needs to remain half full . I say half full and not full , because there should always be room to add to your life . 

We all have to responsibility for our lives , But how many of you accept your life ? How many of you feel that you truly are a victim of your life . I used to play the victim card . I look back and realized that I didn’t get very far in my life playing that deck . Neither will you .

” you can’t be successful until you become successful “

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Do you respond in kind ?

Track Saftey

A close friend went to a refresher class for track safety .  A gentleman by the name of John Deikman came to speak at the end of the class. He really had nothing to do with he track safety , but the railroad has him speak at the end anyway . 

He talked about how people talk and treat each other. If you speak to someone with respect they will generally speak back to you with the same respect . The same goes with disrespect . For example , There is a teacher at my children’s school that thinks if she is strong in her words and her tone she will earn the respect of the children . The fact of the matter is the children don’t respect her as much as they fear her. Should children really fear the teacher or respect the teacher ? I have seen her in action and I must say she could tone it down a bit . I am sure if she spoke to the children with the same respect she expects from them things would be different. 

Do you respond to kind ?

Back to how you talk to people … Do you approach people in general with respect ? Even if you are approached in a disrespectful way to you follow through and reciprocate what you received . I like the saying ” Kill them with kindness “. When someone is being disrespectful  if you continue to follow through with kindness they will eventually give up or give in .

He also mentions that you can apply that with your children . You can talk to them with out verbally attacking them . When you approach them in attack mode they automatically go into respond mode. They attack back . Then nothing is really achieved. If you approach them in a positive way they will react in a positive way . It works . I used this with my son yesterday and as clear a day my new approach worked . 

Who knew that a track safety class would benefit me as well as my friend .

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Just like a drug Addiction

You know habits of any kind become addictive. You get so used to the habit you almost see yourself never letting go . Even if the habit is unhealthy . Just like drug addiction emotional addiction is hard to break . 

Just like a drug Addiction !

There is a period of withdrawal . I know I have been there. You can’t even believe how hard it is to let go of negative behaviors . Especially if you never saw them as negative to begin with .  Most people would just rather say ” this is who I am ” . They have the attitude take it or leave it . I choose to leave it . They are that same person that let’s everything around them take effect in there life. You know the type that get all bent out of shape when they get cut off on the highway , or it rains for a few days so they think without sun there is no sunshine. 

Fort Totten , Bayside, New York

I have let go of plenty of people in my life just for the fact that they are addicted to their behaviors and choose to just except who they are . Others tell me you have to except people for who they are . Do I have to accept a Junkie for who they are too! That is why I love me , I understand that life is a choice. All of life is a choice . Those that can’t see it that way live in a state of negativity .

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Are you an Addict ?

Are you addicted to negative thoughts and behaviors ?

Are you the type of person that feeds off drama ? You love to hear or talk about others people’s problems . Can you get through a day with out gossiping about someone else ?  Then you might not even realize that your body craves it . 

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In the book Evolve your Brain , Dr. Joe Dispenza talks about how If we aren’t faced with any kind of external threat or stressor , We will seek one out . If we can’t find one we will create one – physically or mentally . Do you get that , We create scenarios just to feed out addiction of unhappiness . 

It can go both ways . You can use this to your advantage. You can reprogram your brain to focus on more positive and productive thoughts. YES , the brain can be re-programed . You can change your old habits with new ones . Just the same with your thoughts. The brain is both neurologically hardwired to , and chemically dependent  on our emotions . So our body depends on our emotions to feed the brain . We can make a decision to change the thoughts and emotions which will start to feed the brain a new chemical . The brain will grow new neurons and the old ones will disappear . Just like that ! 

So are you going to feed your addiction or change what you think about ?

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