Is it easy to walk in these shoes ?
They say if you want to be something in life you should walk a day in those shoes . That way you are sure that is what you want for you life . So in a way it is like faking it till you make it.
They say you should fake it till you make it , But I think that is a fine line. I think it is great to put yourself in someone elses shoes . But how long are you willing to fake it for. How long does it take to make it?
It takes as long as it take for you to take the actions to get you there. Everyday you have to ask yourself . Am I doing everything I can today to reach my goals ? If your answer is no . Just know that you are the only thing stopping you from finding success .
I had a talk the other day with John Milton Fogg . He had brought to my attention I needed to go deeper and really pay mind to what I am saying. At least that is one of the things I had gotten out of the conversation . Among plenty of other things. You can change what you look like on the outside . That is great . But if you never change what is going on in the inside you will always be the same.
At this point I am digging real deep. I need to release whatever is holding me back. I truly want to be free from the deep rooted habits and thoughts.
I do understand it is a choice. I will continue to work on myself everyday . I am ready to accept what I create. The beyond freedom program will be the tool I use .
It is all about your mindset how you life will work for you . Yes work for you ! You control you thoughts and actions .
So you have to ask yourself ” Who am I ? “.
Can you answer that honestly ? When you look at yourself who do you see ? What are you thinking when you look at yourself.
Where is your mindset ?
- Are you success motivated ?
- Are you a slacker ?
- Do you people please ?
- Are you making smart choices for yourself ?
- Are you happy?
- Are you depressed ?
Do you have a millionaire mindset ?
What ever your answers are you need to find a place to just feel GOOD !
It is very easy to slip out of that mindset . Stay focused !
Be. Do. Have.
Everybody has a daily thing they do. For me it is get up a 6 am . Before I even get out of bed I visualize what the day is going to look like. Then I have my usual routine I got through. I like to call them my morning chores. My kids have them as well. That is all fine and dandy . But do you realize that your daily routine is who you are . For me I know that my daily routines are positive and have integrity in them . I know that what I do everyday reflects a great result.
Are your daily routines getting you anywhere ?
What is the first thing you do in the morning?
Consider what you daily routine . Are you finding success in what you are doing ? Or is your life at a stand still ? What changes to your routine can you make that will benifit you ? Is your life worth changing?
Time to Step Out of the Box
At one point in my life I took a test and became a licensed hair stylist. So I do have knowledge on hair. I also know what I like. I haven’t had my hair cut in a real salon in years. Even then I really didn’t get what I was asking for. It seemed to be much easier to keep it long. No stress of someone messing it up. I used to hate to see people leave the salon not smiling.
Even though I know it is just hair and mine grows back fast. I have a issue with getting it cut. So I today am Stepping Out of My Box > I got reconnected with a old friend through facebook . We got to talking about life and I mentioned that I had done hair. Then it came up the his partner did hair too ! That is when I realized I had to make a move. Get over myself. Let someone cut my hair. Well it ends up that they live around the corner from me. I haven’t see John in years. It will be really exciting to see him . Just from that energy alone I know the hair cut is going to rock !
I think it is truly important for you to challenge yourself . Do something you would never do . Once you do that you will see that it is not that hard to believe in yourself and accomplish your goals. No matter what your past beliefs may be , You have to understand life is a CHOICE.
Every Day Step Out of The Box
Choose in to your own life. If you can see the bight side of everything life will be a much easier road to drive. Obstacles will not be to challenging for you. You will rise to the top of any situation. Most importantly remember you deserve to be happy .
How many of you actually read books
that can benefit you ?
I will not lie I used to not be a big reader. I used to say if I am going to read a book I would have to gain something from reading it. The mistake I made was taking to much time in between reading . I realize now that I must constantly challenge myself and have the desire to grow. I have came across some prettying amazing books in the past few months. I highly recommend reading them if you want to achieve success in your life. When you are looking to achieve success it is helpful to read up how others have found success.
Books that have inspired me in 2008
- The Secret – Rhonda Byrne
- Key to Living the Law of Attraction – Jack Canfield
- How to Expand Love – Dalai Lama
- Think and Grow Rich – Napoleon Hill
- The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success -Deepak Chopra
- Secrets of the Millionaire Mind – T. Harv Eker
- Going Places – E.D. Hill
The last one I just purchased is The Law of Success – Napoleon Hill That one is a big book. 600 pages . I can’t wait to get into it.
Reading has brought a new light to my life. It helped me Step Out of My Box
goodbye belly hello body
This is the year for amazing things to happen. I used 2008 as the year to learn how to use the tools of life. It has been a very fulfilled year of educating myself. I am so excited about getting to apply all the tools. I understand that in order for anything to happen I need to stay well rounded.
I have to nurture my body, mind & soul. As well as my wallet! I can be free mentally but I will never really be free until I am financially free.
This is My Life in Abundance! It is time for me to take that big step out of the box.
give it attention and what do you see?
When you give it attention it becomes something I now realize that . I saw a comment on Facebook under a picture that I felt was cruel. I couldn’t help but to write what I felt when I read it. It was on Stephanie’s page but the comments were from 3 different. One being me , The first comment from a old friend and the 3rd comment from a hater. Here is how it went “Stephanie — you look great. OMG — is that Debbie behind you!?!” Response was” no its a shemale, dont you see the adams apple”, I replied back with “That is just wrong!” And this is what I got in reply “MIND YOURS, AND STAY OUT OF MINE !!!!!!!! LOSER”. Talk about an angry person.
The point in me telling you this , is for you to understand that I had no intention to bring attention to myself replying . But because I gave it my attention to begin with it manifested into ridiculousness. I have no intention to reply , that would be giving it more attention than it requires. At this point if I was to reply it would become a issue. It will manifest into bad energy.
So when giving something your attention be aware of what you invite your way. Make sure you have good intentions the whole time of interacting during that moment.
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