Just because people say it is hard , Does it have to be?
Wow, It is mind blowing to me to think that most people do not think for themselves. Everybody is raised with different beliefs . That is okay. But you really need to leave yourself open with the possibility that what you are taught maybe completely off.
Why are we so Conditioned by Society?
When did we give up on questioning what we are taught? Why aren’t we challenging the past? I do all the time. Society is what it is because nobody challenges it enough. People are just settling for whatever it is handed to them. When they should really go out and grab what they want.
We have to change the mind set you are born into . We need a better understanding that no matter what situation you are born into it can be changed as easy as a snap of a finger. It is true. It is a state of being . You get to decided your fate nobody else.
P.S. You do always have to start at the bottom to rise to the top!
Take a Step Out of Your Box
I have always been really good at giving advice. Wasn’t always the best at taking it. I always used to say if I just would take my own advise I’d be okay. Well now I am at a crossroads in my life. I want to continue to be able to give advise . I know I have to get better at taking it.
Sometimes it is Better to Listen to Advise Then Give it
My memory skills have helped me a great deal in life. I retain so much information ,it is mind boggling at times. What i have to focus on is my listening skills. If i could concentrate and focus more on what i am listening to, I can remember more useful information. That is very important in the field i desire to be a big part of.
I am Listening!!!
It is very important for my to clear my mind before I listen. My brain has to many thoughts going on at one time. That is where my listening defaults. I already know this. That is where discipline needs to step in to my life. I am very self disciplined so i see myself becoming a very successful listener.
All you need is DISCIPLINE to over come this.
I find in life people tend to make excuses for their behavior. People who Drink, Smoke, Gamble and even Shop. They to me show a lack of self discipline. Doctors like to put labels on behaviors , which then allows the behaviors to continue. Instead of finding the reason behind the behavior they label it and move on.
Is Addiction Really That or Is It a Lack of Self Discipline?
I am no doctor but it is plain to see that everything people claim to be addicted to can be stopped if they just choose to. I know easier said than done. Not true. If you want anything in life bad enough you will get it. If a drug addict wants drugs but has no money , they will find a way to get money. At the same time they can find a way not to get high. They just choose to be weak.
Why would anybody want to choose failure as an option in life? And why do people think they have to do it alone. Nobody wants to see there loved one failing in there life. That is when friends and family step in and want to help. So ask. The only shame is not asking .
Take control and discipline yourself.
Do you Live Life Boldly?
How many of us really do? Can you honestly say that you live life to the fullest and you challenge yourself to step out of your box. Most people can’t say that. They would like to think that they challenge themselves, but the truth is not many people like to leave there comfort zone. Even if that comfort is all negative energy.
We need to not fall into the comfort zone. You need to step up and step out of that zone everyday. Even with simple things like your cup of coffee. If you usually take it light and sweet , try to just have it light not so sweet. You might realize that you will like it that way too!
I am leaving for Hawaii tomorrow. The trip for me is stepping out of the box. I am Married with 2 children and I really don’t care to be with out them. The fact that not only am I going with out them . I am going far from them . I can’t just run home if they need me. That is hard for me . I need to do this for myself and for them . As a result of my trip I am making my family step out of their box. They count on me to do so much for them and now they will need to do those things for themselves.
I am making the choice to Live my Life Bold. Everyday I work the Beyond Freedom program and I am grateful it is in my life.
Are you ready to live bold?