It is all about your mindset how you life will work for you . Yes work for you ! You control you thoughts and actions .
So you have to ask yourself ” Who am I ? “.
Can you answer that honestly ? When you look at yourself who do you see ? What are you thinking when you look at yourself.
Where is your mindset ?
- Are you success motivated ?
- Are you a slacker ?
- Do you people please ?
- Are you making smart choices for yourself ?
- Are you happy?
- Are you depressed ?
Do you have a millionaire mindset ?
What ever your answers are you need to find a place to just feel GOOD !
It is very easy to slip out of that mindset . Stay focused !
Be. Do. Have.
Do you depend to much on others ? Can you make any decisions for yourself ? Some people are afraid to even put these questions into thought . The reason being is they will come to realize that they are not really in charge of there own lives.
Self reliance means reliance on one’s own powers and resources rather than those of others. Not many people can say they are truly self – reliant . I would like to think I am . The truth be told I am not 100% self – reliant . That is something I am working on. Many people wouldn’t think that about me . I am very serious about being in motion and doing everything it take to be in total control of my life.
So I feel to achieve success in my life I need to be self – reliant and be in motion. More important not to force it ! It can happen if you make a decision for it to .
Failure in my life is not a option.
A lot of people like to talk a good game,
Very little attempt playing in it.
Are you the type that gives great advise but never takes your own. I used to be like that. I would present how great life is and how easy it is to achieve . Up until this past year I was all game no play. This year I am all in the game. I am a key player in my game of life. A matter a fact I am the only player to my game.
How many of you have to many players in ” YOUR” life ?
You know the saying to many cooks can spoil the pot . Well to many key players in your life leave very little control for yourself . You should be the only one making big choices in the game . Yeah sure you can ask for advise . But remember people give advise off of their own experiences . So they might not mean to give you the wrong advise. But it does happen . Are the people helping you worthy of your life ?
Do we just get so comfortable in our lives that good bad or in different we keep living it ? Why is it so hard to see that the life we are living like it or not we choose into. We also get to choose out of it . Create a new one . It is just a simple as that. People will find every excuse in the book to say it isn’t . But the fact is everyday we make choices in our lives and they got us into the exact situation we are in now.
Are you happy , Really happy ?
If you life isn’t really what you want to be , why do you think you have to keep doing it . Why is it so hard to see life is not what society has created life to be . There is more to life than a good career and a 9 to 5 job. What happened to family and enjoying life. It is crazy that your employer gets to tell you how many days you are allowed to be sick in a year. When you can take vacation and how many times a year you can do that. Some jobs don’t even give you a choice when you can take it. It is quite bazaar to me .
I always believed in a higher power. I was always aware that we barely as humans understand the brain and why we are here. I have been a student of personal development for many years now. In the past 6 month when I have picked up my reading all the books direct me to the “secret” .
The Law of Attraction
I am truly grateful I have found the Beyond Freedom Program. It really has given me the tools to use the power of intent. IT is absolutely amazing watching myself transform before my very eyes. I love when I feel the excitement of peoples happiness for me. For those that hate I still fake it like you are happy for me. SO for me it is always a win , win situation.
It truly is a blessing to understand that you are the creator of your own destiny. What are you doing in you life to attract the things you desire ?
It is scary when you open your eyes and truly see what is in front of you. When you don’t allow your mind to be clouded by your dreams . When the facts and the truth are presented to you. WOW , it can really hit you hard.
See life for what it really is.
It often comes as a shock to people the truth in life. I know it is for me. When you think everything is going good . Then BANG ! like hitting a brick wall . That is how hard reality can hit you. Like a ton of bricks. Then what do you do? That is when you have to make decisions for yourself that will effect the rest of your life. Which way are you going to turn. There is that fork in the road that will change your life forever. Do you continue down that same path. Or do you allow that ton of bricks turn you in a new direction.
Which way will you go?
It is scary , But do you have belief in yourself. Is the only thing that drives in you in life is the fact that others believe in you? I truly believe you must believe in yourself in order for others to see it is okay to believe in you. You can only hope that they can see that you are worth believing in and you made the right choice . The choice that you make , you should make for you . Everything will fall into place once you have make your decision.
How happy am I going to be if I live my life only pleasing others? Why is it that when it comes to family they think they are the exception to the rule? I just don’t get it. When are people going to WAKE UP and smell the Coffee!
I was not born into this world to please others.
Can't live the life of a carebear.
To help them , but not to please them. I was having conversation with a family member today that feels life isn’t about me. It is about pleasing my families idea of how I should be a part of the family. Not what is good for me , but what is good for them. Even sadder is they are hurt that I help others. They are proud that I do it , but disappointed that it isn’t being done for the people ” they “want me to do it for.
Wow , I am grateful I am where I am in life. I was able to have this conversation with out loosing my footage of what I want in my life. I didn’t not feel bad. I didn’t feel guilty that I am doing what Is good for me. I am actually really proud of myself. People need to just get over themselves. We cannot control each other and should not push our thoughts and beliefs onto others. If you asking for help or seek advise that is one thing. That means you yourself need to get all the information so you can make a decision .
Some many times I would find my self being the one to blame for my unhappiness. When I took the time to look back at many disappointments in my life it would be me that caused them. How much time i had wasted. I can never get that time in my life back. But I will be sure to never let it happen again.
Be the Cause in Your Life , Not the Effect
You eat bad things , you get fat ..... Cause & Effect
I need to make sure I don’t place blame on anybody but myself anymore. I need to acknowledge my wrong doing when it takes place. That way I can move on in my life and not let the situations cause any unhappiness. Unhappiness is just wasted energy. I’d rather spend my energy on being happy. It is more fun! The more i focus on being the cause in my life the more things go the way I want.
That is where the Law of Attraction takes place in the effect, Not the cause. As you create the cause the effect takes place. The universe starts working towards your focus . So focus happy and that is where you will be.
For ever in a state of gratitude.
Beyond Freedom Journal day 60
Wow, Am I at Day 60 of the Beyond Freedom Program already.
Time sure does fly when you are constantly moving forward. I am learning so much about myself and even more about others. Funny there is a big difference between doers and complainers. I think I am a doer. If I am unhappy about something I DO something to change it. That I think always separates me from others. I strongly believe that there is no point in complaining about anything if that is all you are willing to do is complain.
Be. Do. Have.
I have been complaining that I need more leads for my business. Then I asked myself am I doing everything possible to generate what I am looking for. The answer was NO. I was Being , But I wasn’t doing . That is why I don’t have! So Today day 60 I am kicking myself into high gear. Nobody is going to do this for me.
My life is by my design. I want to keep it that way.
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