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What You Need to Hear & What You Want to Hear

 

 

 

I think people don’t realized that to sugar coat everything is very dangerous. Most people ask for advise and expect the person to tell them exactly what they want to hear. When the truth of the matter is they are to sensitive to hear the truth. When they are presented with what they need to hear instead of what they want to hear they feel like they are being attacked.

What You Need to Hear & What You Want to Hear

Every time I am asked advise about something I am as honest as possible. Sometimes honesty is taken as cruelty. That is never where is comes from. It is usually the person that can’t handle the facts about a given situation. I   keep a straight level in my voice when telling someone what they NEED to hear. That way they can’t say I was attacking them. I never want to come off that way or they will never hear what needs to be heard.

When hearing the things you don’t want to hear you need to step out of yourself. It is a growing process when needing to hear the truth. Even bigger step to except it. We all would like life to be painted as a pretty picture . It just doesn’t always work out that way. Be more excepting of what you need to hear and grow from it. You WILL be grateful in the end.

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One on One Personal Development

 

Truth hurts sometimes

Truth hurts sometimes

I have been told for years that I am brutally honest. Is there such a thing. Or is it just that people can’t handle the truth. Everybody wants life candy coated. If people can just see the real reality of life , It could be a better life for them. That is where i think that my life long flaw is truly my biggest asset. 

 

 

One on One Personal Development

 

I have always had a thing for helping people. I don’t mind being honest with people. Life isn’t all about protecting peoples feelings. Especially when it is something they truly need to hear. People don’t see the big picture in life all the time. When I speak with many people and I let them see there life under a new light , They are grateful. Sometimes it seems to them to came out cruel. That is never my intent. It usually seems that way to someone who is having a problem excepting the truth.

 

 

Can you handle the truth? Are you ready for change?

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It is Hard When People Don’t Share in Your Beliefs

 

I have always walked to the beat of my own drum. As far back as I can remember I always thought differently than everybody else. I kept things reaI honest. always tried to stay truthful. I was looked at like I was a bitch. I was very opinionated. It never really bothered me what people thought of me. I have been able to keep some long time friends. I do have one problem.

 

It is Hard When People Don’t Share in Your Beliefs

 

Almost like religion we all have our different opinions on how to practice religion. Well I choose not to practice religion. I just have strong life beliefs. Most of my closest friends think I am crazy. I believe in the power of positive thought. I believe you treat others truly how you’d like to be treated. I believe to dream big and no dream is to big to come true. There is no such thing to me as being realistic in the sense of conforming my thoughts. What is real to me might not be real to others. I am comfortable with myself. To me that is most important.

I also feel it is best to spend my time with like minded people. Most of my closest friends are not like minded people. That leaves me in a bit of a dilemma. What do I do about the friendships. I have excepted my friends for who they are. But as I grow into the human being I always wanted to be , Do i care to spend time with them anymore? Does the saying hold strong, people do grow apart?

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