Life is about choice. You are given life. You are told how things in life are supposed to be. You grow up and realize that there is a possibility that everything you have learned was false. You don’t have to work a 9 to 5 job. You don’t have to follow what society says. It is okay that your kids want to be home with you . It is great to want to be family oriented. It is okay to look in the mirror and tell yourself that you are amazing.
All those things happen when you choose in ,in your life.
People don’t realize that choosing out shouldn’t be an option. Imagine going to a palm reader and they tell you that you aren’t with your soul mate and that you will have money problems. You repeat what they say in your head over and over. Then you suddenly realize that they were right . I do have some bills. And I don’t always get along with my partner. You mind is falling into the negative patterns. You instantly allowed your self to stop making choices. You let your mind make the choices for you. At that point when you went and got a opinion of another you decided that what ever they say is true. By repeating it over and over you attracted it to start happening.
When are we as humans going to choose in ? When are we going to own up and take control for our actions? When are we going to start being more excepting of change?
People spend their whole lives struggling so hard to be good at something. You are told when you are little you need to decide to pick what you want to be when yo grow up. Most kids pick out what they feel in there heart they could really be. That is when they can truly feel their calling. Some where along the way they let go of that dream. They compromise their dreams because they are told that the material things in life are more important.
Why Struggle at Being Something You Aren’t Supposed to Be
Dare to be your DREAM
When in our lives do we start to compromise our dreams? Why do we give up on our childhood goals. Where does it state you have to grow up , get married and have a 9 to 5 job that you hate. Why do we have to struggle to become a person that we naturally not meant to be.
Find your calling in life. Ask yourself a few questions:
- What am I good at?
- What do I enjoy doing?
- What gives me pleasure in life?
- Am I a leader in my life?
- Do I control my own life?
- After asking those questions , figure out how you can do those things that make you happy. How can those things make you money. How those things can bring you all of your life desires. Find something in life that doesn’t feel like it is work. That is because you enjoy doing what you do so much it isn’t work, It Is LIFE!
I think people don’t realized that to sugar coat everything is very dangerous. Most people ask for advise and expect the person to tell them exactly what they want to hear. When the truth of the matter is they are to sensitive to hear the truth. When they are presented with what they need to hear instead of what they want to hear they feel like they are being attacked.
What You Need to Hear & What You Want to Hear
Every time I am asked advise about something I am as honest as possible. Sometimes honesty is taken as cruelty. That is never where is comes from. It is usually the person that can’t handle the facts about a given situation. I keep a straight level in my voice when telling someone what they NEED to hear. That way they can’t say I was attacking them. I never want to come off that way or they will never hear what needs to be heard.
When hearing the things you don’t want to hear you need to step out of yourself. It is a growing process when needing to hear the truth. Even bigger step to except it. We all would like life to be painted as a pretty picture . It just doesn’t always work out that way. Be more excepting of what you need to hear and grow from it. You WILL be grateful in the end.
Life is different when you take charge of your life. You are the master of your own destiny. It is actually pretty exciting when you get to pick and choose what you want to happen in your life. Yes somethings we cannot control. But we can still choose how we deal with what is presented to us.
Living With Intent
have you made a imprint with your intent?
That is a big key in the picture of life. If you live your life with out intent then what exactly are you living for. What is intent mean? The definition of intent is purpose. Do you know your purpose ? Or do you just live life with out even knowing why you live. Every person is good at something. It is a matter of finding that one thing and focusing on it .
For example… I am really good at helping people with their lives. So I decided to live my life with the intent to help people for a living. I have become a self empowered life coach. I have purpose in my life that I can share with others. My goal as a life coach is to help people gain intent in their lives. I think I have been really successful at this.
Do you have success with your intent?
Beyond Freedom Journal day 60
Wow, Am I at Day 60 of the Beyond Freedom Program already.
Time sure does fly when you are constantly moving forward. I am learning so much about myself and even more about others. Funny there is a big difference between doers and complainers. I think I am a doer. If I am unhappy about something I DO something to change it. That I think always separates me from others. I strongly believe that there is no point in complaining about anything if that is all you are willing to do is complain.
Be. Do. Have.
I have been complaining that I need more leads for my business. Then I asked myself am I doing everything possible to generate what I am looking for. The answer was NO. I was Being , But I wasn’t doing . That is why I don’t have! So Today day 60 I am kicking myself into high gear. Nobody is going to do this for me.
My life is by my design. I want to keep it that way.
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My husband and I had a conversation about his job today. He was saying how some of the guys at work can’t understand why he doesn’t work on his days off. They feel they have to work hard now to have the good life later. My husband knows the secret.
Work Smarter, Not Harder
Life is to short to sell your self short. We have a family and our children need there parents home with them. We are homebodies. We stress that family time is important time. Why would my husband want to spend his days at work , when he can be home making memories. That is where most people don’t realize their mistakes.
Life is to short to spend 40-60 hours a week at a job. Money isn’t everything . Money buys you the material things in life. Most of the material things people want is influenced by the media. You can have money and the life of a 20 hour work week if you learn how to…
Family Fun Day Every Monday
We can plan out our day as best as possible. We can use our visionalaztions to help in the preparation as well.
Sometimes Not Everything Goes as Planned.
You can take the time and plan your day , your week even your life. Unexpected things do come up. Things you have no control of. At times this obstacles can seem like you are doomed. You need even at times like this to see the positive in the situation.
Yesterday my husband and I had our day planned out. That was until the phone rang at 4:30 am. It was a friend of mine. She lives about a hour and forty minutes from my house. She is pregnant not due till the 18th of August. Well like I was saying not everything goes as planned. She asked if I can come and get her son, She was in labor. That was always in our plan when she planned to have a c section. Didn’t exactly work out that way. Needless to say I had to change my plans for the day. Did I mind driving upstate at 4:30 in the morning. The truth I didn’t even think twice about it. I just kept thinking how happy I was for her .
Born Aug. 5th ,2008
Life goes on whether it is the way you planned it or not. Don’t let obstacles change the goal at the end of the day. That is to enjoy life no matter what it brings.
Many people want to see change before they commit to doing something. What they don’t understand is that you need to commit in order to see change. Life isn’t about finding the easy way out. You get out of life what you put in.
For Me My Life is Changing Before My Eyes.
I strongly believe in BE. DO. HAVE. Without those core principles in my life I will have no progress. I can complain all I want about the things I don’t have. I can be only upset with myself if I have done nothing to go out and get them. Yes I believe in the law of attraction. I can positive think about things all I want. You need action in your life to acquire them.
I had already known what house I wanted. I have pictures of it everywhere. I even have a rubber stamp with my name and the address on it. I know it sounds silly. I believed that I attracted things into my life. I know that I just can’t positive think this house into my life. I need to Be. Do . Have.
I attracted Liberty League into my life. With this I will purchase my dream home.
Why do people feel so obligated to please others and make themselves unhappy. I see this happening everyday. People complain all the time about the things they do for other people. I wish people would realize
Please Yourself … Don’t Feel You Have To Please Others
For years I did things in my life to make other people happy. I went to family functions to make my mother happy. Called my grandmothers to please my parents. I didn’t enjoy what I was doing. I did it out of family obligation. Most people think that you have a family obligation you have to fulfill.
I have learned that the only obligation I have is with myself . I am obligated to take care of myself. To make sure I keep all toxic things and people out of my life. That includes family. I am grateful to my parents for the birth of my life. I have excepted my life experiences with them as learning tools for my future. But at no time at this point in my life do I think I need to keep them in my life if it brings me down.
The fact in the matter is I haven’t spoke to my father since September 2007. As a result I had room for the growth I was looking for. I truly believe I couldn’t have achieved the things in the past year that I have if I had him in my life. It is sad to think but it is true. People can hold you back from your true potential. You’d never realize it because of you feeling obligated and never letting go. I would love to be able to share in my growth with my father. If I ever went back into a relationship with him it would be under my terms. That is how I feel about any of the relationships I have let go of.
When decieding to focus on personal growth, not everybody is supportive. They claim they are. When it comes down to it they treat you as if you are the same person. They haven’t changed how they treat you. It makes it hard to be around them because you aren’t the same person. You don’t care to be treated in that manner anymore. Don’t feel bad to let go of them. If they want to keep you in their life they will have no choice but to change the way they treat you.
Life is a choice . We get to choose every little aspect of it. From your desired wealth , to your desired weight. What do you choose for yourself ?
I choose Freedom . With the Beyond Freedom Program .
God's little Blessing
I am going a little off my usual topics. I became a aunt last night. It is a wonderful thing. My older brother became a father. He now understands what it is like to create life. He now knows about LIFE BEING A BLESSING.
Sometimes we get so caught up in the material word we lose touch with the simple joys of life. Birth and creation of a human life is one of the most amazing things in the world. I know i did it twice. It truly puts things into perspective. The first moments with your child doesn’t even seem real. It is almost like the world stopped. Time is standing still. You try to hold on to that feeling forever.
The sad part is that people forget that feeling and jump right back into the material world. Losing sight very quickly of what life is truly about. We need to hold tight to what is truly important in life. For me it is my family. They are the most important to me. Being at home and creating a strong family bond is my first priorty in life.
I have many goals I have set for myself. My first major goal is retire my husband so he doesn’t miss out on anymore memories . I am tired of him being married to his job .So is he. We are young and people don’t think it is possible for our dreams to come true. Good thing I don’t create my dreams on what other people have to say. If i did I would have never had the successful life i have to begin with.
Life is short , so lets not loose sight on what is really important.
Life is a Blessing.