How many times do you say you are going to clean house in your life ? But when it comes down to it a lot gets sweep-ed under the rug. You decided every year you are going to stop doing the wrong things and start doing the right ones. You are going to stop complaining and start doing something about it.
Out with the Old , In with the New
I pick the topic of friendships at this time . That is what I have been dealing with a lot lately. I have come to a crossroads in my life . Do I continue to complain about the friendships I have or do I change something about them. So I am choosing to do something about the friendships. I have decided to end them. It is time in my life to let go of people who have been in my life out of habit. The ones who have been just there because I am used to it that way. I am letting go of those who don’t challenge me to be a better human. I am letting go of those that are my friend because of need . The friendships that are draining to me.
With all of those friendships gone, I have created the space in my life for people who challenge me to be a better human. I am excited about it. I am surrounding myself with like minded people who are achieving goals and dreams in their life . I have made a goal for myself to only surround myself with people moving forward. I will never look back again.
When looking in the mirror are you just looking at the reflection or are you really seeing yourself ? I never realized when I looked in the mirror I wasn’t really seeing me. It was strange the first time I looked myself in the eyes. Like as if I was staring into a strangers eyes. Instead of being in shock that I have never taken the time to do this before . I actually enjoyed what I saw. I was pleased with what I look like . I can see the happiness in my spirit. I can see the energy that people tell me I am giving off.
Look in your Eyes
That is one of the greatest gifts I have ever learned. Really look at yourself and ask yourself ,Do you love you ? Are you happy ? Do you like who you are ? Then listen to your answers and if you don’t like what the answers are then take action in your life. Step out of your box and make changes that are going to give you better results when you ask those questions.
I have so much going on lately I get confused on where to place my focus. I love helping people, But sometimes I get so involved I don’t leave time to focus on my dreams and goals. Then when i do take the time I don’t know which one to focus on. I feel that I am
Trying to Achieve to Many Goals at One Time.
I need to figure out what goals I need to achieve first in order to achieve the rest. I am going to make a list.My list is going to consist of all of my dreams. I am going to place them in an order my when i want to achieve them by.
- What do I want to achieve in the next 30 days?
- List them in order of importance.
- What do I want to achieve in 60 days from that?
- List those in the order of importance.
After I have made my lists I need to start at the top of my list. I need to place focus on that particular goal.
With out forgetting all of my other self obligations. Like Journaling, Affirmations, visualizations, meditation, house chores, family time and of course blogging . I know when I do it all together it will fall into place.
So I will wait not another second , I will apply what I know works. I’d be a fool not to use the tools I was given.
Today is August 1st ,2008 … My goal is to generate an abundance of leads in the next 30 days.
With in that same 30 days I intend to make an offer on my dream house.
We will see in 30 days where I am at.
What does that mean ? Show up For Your ” own ” life, Don’t Leave Until You Get What You Came For. I was on a morning wake up call with Liberty League when i heard someone say that. It made me have one of the Ah ha moments that Oprah always talks about. Do I show up for my own life? I thought about it for awhile. Then i came to the conclusion that i do but i still can be more present in my life.
How many of you show up for your own life ? Do you own your actions ? Do you sit and blame the world for all the things that you don’t have instead of being grateful for the things you have. Are you making the life decisions in your own world or do you let the world make them for you .
I know that I make choices for my own life . I wake up everyday and decided for myself what is going to happen that day. Although you cannot predict everything that is going to happen . I can predict how i am going to react to any given situation. I will always respond instead of react. I will always find the positive in everything i do.
I will make sure that I am the main influence in my life. I will own my decisions and choices. I will live to please myself. I will acknowledge the law of attraction in my everyday life. I will not quit on myself until i get what i came for.
Are you ready to get what you came for?
Here I am Day 22.
I need to Stay Focused and Give the Universe Time to Manifest My Dreams.
Some things seem like it happens over night. Somethings definitely will take longer for the universe to manifest. I am just so excited about life i want it to all happen now.
- Hilton Resort & Spa in Hawaii
I am leaving for Hawaii in 3 days. I am so excited to meet all of these wonderful people. The best thing about these people is we are all like minded. We may all be going to Hawaii to hear to same people. We will all be leaving there with our own experiences. We will all grow in different ways. I will take home everything I learn and apply it to my day life. Just as I do with my Beyond Freedom program. Every time I read or listen to the CD’s I learn something new.
When changing who you are you need to constantly remind your self that you are a work in progress. Give yourself a chance. If you fail yourself at something make it a point the next day to stick to your goal. I set goals for myself that I keep repeatedly failing myself. I realize thought I am failing MYSELF. So I kicked it into gear. I am showing more self discipline. I also remind myself I am doing this because I want to . Nobody is forcing me to change. I took this upon myself to do. That is why I say when I am failing, I fail myself.
This is my journey in life.
So here I am at day 15. I am looking back at the past two weeks and I am proud of myself. I could have never done this alone. The love and support from like minded people has an amazing effect on me. Liberty league is a part of my life now.
Beyond Freedom is part of my lifestyle.
Being apart of a community that shares the same goals and morals as you is almost healing. I can dream big and not for a second is anybody sending a negative thought my way. It is more like… “Congratulations you deserve it”. It is hard to change when the people that are close to you aren’t very accepting of it. Or that they accept that you are changing but there are going no where. You want them to grow with you…… Continue reading
How could I sit here and give advice if I don’t share My Own Journey?
I too have a past. I used to allow my past experiences to cloud my judgement in everything I do. I knew that I wanted to stop using my childhood as an excuse. My past relationships would hinder my new ones.
My Own Journey truly started for me about 5 years ago. I was tired of letting my life control me. I needed to gain control of my life. I started reading book after book. Everyday I would incorporate what I have read into my life. I felt a change, so I took a break from reading.
Then it dawned on me, you can never stop improving yourself. I continued my search to what would help me help myself. I found very empowering books and self help programs. I was growing. I found out some important things about myself. I like me! I was able for the first time in my life look in a mirror and see my reflection and liked what I saw. I knew this was a start to a new me. I need to go back into these relationships under my terms.
It was my life and i was ready to take full control of it. Then I came across the book THE SECRET.
I hadn’t heard of it till my brother -in-law’s grandmother shared her copy with me. It helped me realize that I am an amazing person. All the changes I was making in my life were going to create an amazing future for me. But reading The Secret wasn’t enough growth for me. I knew that I am capable of so much more. I have hidden talents that I am yet to discover.
As always I again search the internet to find more ways to better myself. I searched The Law of Attraction in a random search engine. I came across a web page that offered an income and personal growth. I thought I might have just struck gold….. To make this long story short … I did.
I found The Beyond Freedom program. It is a 90 day self help program.
I am on Day 8. Continue reading