It is very important that when you are about to engaged in a conversation with someone you are in the right state of being. If you are angry are you going to be clear on your goal of the conversation. If you want to create a positive outcome you start with a positive beginning. You make sure you are not in an attack mode when approaching the situation. Usually the person will come back in defense mode.
Conversation Going your Way
how are you going to respond to that???
Even if the conversation is about the weather ,if you aren’t in a good way the conversation will tend to take a negative turn. Then a simple and potentially nice interaction can be uncomfortable real fast.
If you are on the receiving end of this conversation my advice to you is, Disengage. Do NOT allow yourself to be pulled into the negative energy. Some how get yourself out of the conversation . Keep the conversation on a positive level. Remind them that what ever it is . It is really no big deal. Don’t say that to them exactly, Just remind them of the positive aspects of what is going on. Life is to short to be angry!
I share this topic with you because most of the world is angry. They do not know how to engage people in a positive conversation. if we can all
find a little bit of sunshine in the day the world would shine a lot brighter.
Try stepping out of your box.
How many times has a day been going well and then suddenly one thing goes wrong? You let that one event spiral into a whole day gone bad.
Don’t Let One Thing Put a Dent in The Day.
I used to be the kind of person that if I woke up groggy, that’s was it. I allowed it to rule my day. I used it as an excuse to control my attitude for the rest of the day. Some people do this their whole lives. Example you wake up and get out of bed and stub your foot. You go into the kitchen and then drop the coffee mug. Although one had nothing to do with the other you connect the two and think the rest of the day will go this way. You have now put the energy out there that your day is going to be full of bad events. When in actuality that isn’t the case at all.
You have a choice in life how you will react to any given situation. I choose to respond in stead of react. A reaction is an immediate response to something. Responding you actually take the time to think about how you want to react.
I have friends that walk around with the attitude that they attract bad luck. I don’t believe that to be true at all. If you see the bad in everything it will seem like bad is always around you . You are what you think about. It would make sense if that statement is true to focus your time and energy on good thoughts. You need to project good energy in order to receive that good energy back.
I make it a practice to find the good in every given situation . Even when it seems impossible to do, look real hard it is there. You can learn something from everything. Learning means growth. Growth is positive. Growth is a big part of personal development.
What do you think about?
Can you see the positive in any given situation?