I had written a post back in June about ways to improve your life. I thought it would be a good idea to re-post it . I just want to say the first thing you will have to do to improve your life is want it. Improvement may mean change. Are you up for change? People go around everyday saying that they want change . Yet they do nothing to make it happen. Here are a list of ten things I know that will change your life.
Top 10 Ways To Improve Your Life:
- Be HONEST with yourself
- Let go of your past experiences ,Live everyday as it was the first
- Control and create your reality
- Think outside the box
- Set your self some goals – Life goals
- Dream big and believe it to be true – It will manifest
- Stay focused
- Look in the mirror and tell yourself you are a successful human being (and believe it!}
- Organize your home _clutter causes stress and anxiety
- Do something nice for someone else
And my last bit of advise is to Always respond to a situation than to React to it!
When looking in the mirror are you just looking at the reflection or are you really seeing yourself ? I never realized when I looked in the mirror I wasn’t really seeing me. It was strange the first time I looked myself in the eyes. Like as if I was staring into a strangers eyes. Instead of being in shock that I have never taken the time to do this before . I actually enjoyed what I saw. I was pleased with what I look like . I can see the happiness in my spirit. I can see the energy that people tell me I am giving off.
Look in your Eyes
That is one of the greatest gifts I have ever learned. Really look at yourself and ask yourself ,Do you love you ? Are you happy ? Do you like who you are ? Then listen to your answers and if you don’t like what the answers are then take action in your life. Step out of your box and make changes that are going to give you better results when you ask those questions.
It is January 15th, 2009. How many of you have already given up on your resolutions? I know I have failed myself as well. I am no martyr. I shouldn’t have given myself goals I wasn’t ready to commit to . The fact is you can’t give up something without being ready. But when are we ever gonna be ready?
Is your resolution to cut down on coffee?
We will be ready when want better for ourselves. That is the problem a lot of us don’t think we are worth it. After spending the weekend in LA with some of the most amazing people I have ever met. And yes I met most of them. I realize that I am worth it every step of the way. I am worth eating healthy and exercising . I am worth the effort to be wealthy. Nobody is just going to hand me that life. I have to realize it is there for the taking.
I also want to say you don’t need it to be a New Year for you to make a change in your life. Just make that decision and stick to it.
I am sure plenty of times in your life you expected to have a certain result in something you have done. You see someone else doing the same thing but are having a different outcome. WHY ? Why when you are given the same tools as the next person you do not have the same result? The answer is everybody is different. Not everybody works the same with the same tools.
All The Same Ingredients , Different Results.
same ingredients , different results
I work with a company that gives you all the tools for success. I have to tell you the company gets a bad rap because of the fact that same ingredients , different results. You can bring the horse to water but you can’t make it drink. You can get the tools for life , but that doesn’t mean you know how to use them. What you need to do is educate yourself on how to use the tools. For example the company I work with offers you not just the tools . They provide you the education on how to use the tools to maximize your result. Can it get any easier. All you have to do is take action. Just like life. Take action.
So now you know , If you don’t know how to get that result you are looking for Educate yourself about the tools and them apply them.
Be something before you do something and do something to have something. Do you understand what that means? In order to have something, you need to start at the beginning. You have to be something . Who are you ? What do you want to be. The first step is to figure that out. Once you have pin pointed that start being it. Don’t be afraid of it either. Embrace what you want.
Then you can bring yourself to the do part. You start doing , Taking action. See what it is going to take to get you the results you want. Are you stepping out of your box in order to make your do happen. Sometimes we have to make ourselves uncomfortable in order to grow.
Finally you will have achieved your goal of having. Before your very eyes you will have achieved things you had never thought possible. All because you made a decision, Took action and have a result.
Be. Do. Have.
Sometimes in life we have to do things we don’t always like. One big thing most people don’t enjoy is CHANGE. I really am not sure why we get comfortable in life. We don’t get excited about change. One of the most important things in life is to take action. We need to take action in our lives in order to achieve our goals.
Take Action Like it or Not !!!
Why we need to take action:
- In order to acquire something , you need to take action
- In order to create life , you need to take action
- In order to have happiness , you need to take action
- In order to feel success , you need to take action
- In order to have relationships that work , you need to take action
- Basically anything in life needs you to take action.
Most people would rather just stay where they are in life then take action in their own life . Taking action might just be stepping out of the box for yourself. That is great . You have acknowledged that you are ready to step out of your comfort zone. This is when great things happen for yourself. You just can give up. You didn’t get in that comfort zone over night . Don’t expect for your habits to change over night. They can, But if they don’t remember you need to only set little goals for your self. If you achieve more than that. Then you need to celebrate it!
Sometimes I just can’t understand. Why do people think that they can’t do things on there own. They need to be told what to do in there own lives. Or they know what they want but they want somebody to actually tell them what to do. Why don’t they take charge. It is the only job in the whole world where you are the boss and nobody can change that. Why would you want to let someone make life decisions for you.
You Can Do It All By Yourself !
I just wish people would stop making excuses for why they don’t have and start taking action. I hear people tell me all the time , I know what i have to do . How do i do it ? What do they mean how. Just get off your rump and do it. It is your life, Show up and get what you came for. All it takes is action. You want to have things and be somebody you need to take action in your life. Own it!
Do you own your life?